Friday, December 25, 2009

Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

Just curious. I know a few married people and just people who are in relationships who have a myspace account and who have found old flames, friends and new flames and friends and..... you know the rest. What do you all think? I'm engaged and I have an account, but it's set to "private" so everyone can't view. I think that can help alot. My fiance' doesn't care if I have one. He doesn't have one. As a matter of fact, he didn't even know what it was until I told him about it. LOL! What you do you all think, could this hender anyone's marriage?



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

I'm married, and both my husband %26amp; I have Myspace accounts. We do not hide anything from each other (we're both allowed under each others accounts), and we use Myspace to keep in touch with friends %26amp; family.



It really just depends on the reason behind using Myspace.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

yes if you let it!- otherwise i don't see a problem



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

When I think of Myspace, I think of teenagers...so, I think it is immature to be married and doing the MYspace thing.....But, hey, whatever floats ya boat.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

I have one. It depends on what you use it for. Mine is to promote dog rescue. If you're honest with yourself and your significant other, it shouldn't matter what you do as long as you're not advertising yourself as available.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

I think that depends entirely on the person and the relationship. If they are in a loving, trusting relationship, what's the problem? I've been married almost three years now and I have a myspace. I even have a couple of ex boyfriends on my friends list. The difference is, my husband and I trust each other. He knows that I'm with him because that's where I want to be and if I didn't really want to be here, I wouldn't be. We've been down that road of mistrust and accusations and heartbreak. But if you trust each other, there's no reason why getting in touch with friends would be a bad thing. Its when that trust is betrayed that it becomes a problem



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

Def. Not. you are set on private and you there to meet your old friends...:)



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

I think when two people are truly committed to each other and their marriage, there's a good chance nothing are no one will come between that. Not even the people on, %26amp; having a Myspace account.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

If you are not abusing it, what's the big deal. My husband and I both have our own account...



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

no, i don't think its bad. just be clear that you're taken.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

The only way Myspace can mess up your marriage is if you let it by seeking out people to have more then a friendship with.



I am married and have a myspace account. DH has one as well. It doesn't bother either one of us as we have access to each others account and trust one another 100%. I am not seeking for any relationships nor is he. He is networking, and I have mine to keep in touch with all my friends all over the world.



Just be faithful and don't give your partner a reason to distrust you with your account and you will be fine.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

Nah. I'm married, and have had one for the past several years. I keep mine to stay in touch with my friends. Additionally, I ignore messages that state, "Hey, gurl! Ur hott! Hitt me upp little mama!" Ugh.



It's email like that that make me glad I got married to my INTELLEGENT husband. lol



Seriously, though. Some of my friends live out of state and out of the country, so, phone conversations are out of the question, sometimes. I don't do much with my account, NOW, but it's a good way to keep in touch with my friends.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

I believe anything that may cause some distance or division in the marriage and any relationship could be something that you would not bring in to your life when you leave school and such the only time you should be concerned with caqtching up on old times are the reunions other then that i think you should be rerspectful of your mate and close your account I do think your hubby would be a little apprehensive if he really knew what myspace accounts were all about. Consider chat lines a form of cheating unless it is with family and friends you both share. I do not think it wise to communicate with people you once dated or even had a crush on this can hurt the very



structure of the life you have at this point in time.



God Bless and I think you will make a wise decision.



Congrats on the engagement.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

Depends on what you're looking for and what you plan to do when you find someone you make a conection with.If you feel guilty about anything you're doing or saying then it's cheating to you, if not then it must be alright.When you are on it just act like your fiance' is right there with you and you can't go wrong.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

I don't think so if you at least have on status that your in a relationship. I have one too...and i am engaged. My man doesn't mind...he actually gets a kick out of what people have to say. I show him cause i don't have anything to hide. If you dont' have anything to hide....and if he has a good sense of humor share the emails with him...he might get a kick out of it too...since you do come home to him....



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

if you spend too much time on there then yes it can hinder...



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

I'm married. We both have Myspace accounts. We both are able to log into each others accounts. We keep it primarily for friends and family. I dont see anything wrong with this, but have had problems in the past because of jealousy issues. Just make sure that you keep your page strictly for friends and family you know. Once you cross the boundary of adding new people of the opposite sex to your page as friends questions will arise. Eventually it will dwindle the trust if you let it. I would always keep my page open for my husband to log into if he chooses to do so. And its been best that way for us so far.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

I think your safe. It's a good place to find old friends and talk to family that is far away at the same time. There's always going to be people trying to get to you. As long as your there for what you want then there shouldn't be any reason to worry. You have final control of your myspace and your decisions.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

My husband and I both have a myspace. We use it to connect with friends and family. We have each others passwords and are not using it to hide anything. Lots of adults actually have them now.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

It will only become a problem if you allow it to be. Both my husband and I have MySpace accounts. Both accounts have "private" settings and we both know each others passwords that way we know that we're not hiding anything. We use myspace to keep in touch with friends from previous duty stations. It's a great way to find people we used to serve with. Myspace is a great tool - until people start abusing it.



Is having a Myspace account bad if your married?

Me and my husband both have MySpace accounts and most of my married friends do as well. I don't see why it should be a problem. MySpace wasn't developed as a dating site.

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